Choices and chances

When we meet the right person to love

when we're at the right place at the right time.

That's CHANCE.

When you meet someone you're attracted to,

that's not a choice.

That's CHANCE.

Being caught up in a moment

(and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this)

is not a choice.

That's also a CHANCE.

The difference is what happens afterward.

Whenwill you take that infatuation, that crush,

thatmind-blowing attraction to the next level?

That'swhen all sanity goes back,

you sit down and contemplate

whether you want to make this

into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person,

even with his faults, that's not a chance.

That's CHOICE.

When you choose to be with a person,

no matterwhat,

that's CHOICE.

Even if you know there are many people out there

who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate,

and yet, you decide to love your mate the same,

that's CHOICE.

Infatuation, crushes,attraction comes to us by CHANCE.

But true love that lasts is trulya CHOICE.

A choice that we make.

Regarding soulmates, there's a beautiful movie

quote that I believe is so true about this :

"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."

I do believe that soulmates do exist.

That there is truly someone made for you.

But it's still up to you to make the choice

if you're going to do something about it or not.

WE MAY MEET OUR SOULMATES BY CHANCE,

BUT... LOVING AND STAYING WITH OUR SOULMATES

IS STILL A CHOICE WE HAVE TO MAKE